The uses of sorrow
By Mary Oliver
Someone I loved once gave me a box full of darkness.
It took me years to understand that this, too, was a gift.
What is the box you were given?
Is it tattered or shiny designer? Shaped round like a grand mother’s hat box? What does it smell like: moth balls, or the faint scent of rose water? Are their tastes in the box, flavors of family holiday meals?
Have you peeked inside?
I peeked, nearly 18 years ago. The lid lifted with a crazy prayer: “I want to know.”
It never fit back on again. I am still unpacking it. But I wouldn’t trade the knowing for all the perfect p.k.’s (preacher’s kids) in the world.
People give things up for Lent, or so I hear. Maybe this year for Lent you might climb the ladder of your heart and bring down a box or two.
Beautiful.
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That means so much coming from you.
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My favorite of all, Jo. These words have held me all morning.
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Thank you good words to read on a day I feel so isolated.
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